First Time Sex Tips - How to Lose Your Virginity in Style

Having sex for the first time is normally something you share with a special somebody, but for some it might be a big hurdle - either due to age, physical disability, shyness or simply feeling ashamed that you are a virgin at a higher age. You need not be worried about this, but for some that is easier said than done.

In such cases you could choose between these options:

• Counseling with a psychotherapist about your concerns
• Getting in touch with a good friend you feel comfortable with

Let's examine these options in each their perspective.

Counseling With a Psychotherapist

Sometimes there can be psychological blockings that have caused you not to get involved in sex. You can get advice from a psychologist or a psychotherapist to find the background for your sentiments, and in that way you might come across whatever caused you not to get involved with sex yet.

Very often you will find that your feelings are irrational, and you have reasons that only make sense for yourself for having held back. Getting confirmation of whatever has caused a low self-esteem can be an important first step in getting past your virginity.

Getting In Touch With a Good Friend

You might also choose to get in touch with a good friend to hear whether they would want to help you overcome this problem. There is no doubt that you could easily agree to help one another if you would feel more comfortable than just a mere one night stand with someone found through chat services or other online means of contact.

On the other hand, you should carefully consider that some friendships are destroyed once you cross the sexual barrier since other feelings come to the surface in the process.

But having a one-time experience with a close friend can also be very liberating since you share that one special moment while still accepting this was a purely technical encounter to help you enter the world of adult sexuality.

In Conclusion

There is nothing to be ashamed of in being a virgin. You have the option of sharing a very special moment before you, but for some the feelings associated with virginity are great shyness, and even though we try to convince you it is highly natural, you need to feel comfortable about this so you can move on.

Don't feel any pressure to move ahead before you're sure you are ready for sex.

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